Bokuto…is a good boyfriend, as long as you know how to handle him, you shouldn’t be worried about anything going wrong
He is a very emotional soul who wears his heart on his sleeve. When he is with you, it’s so obvious he’s in love and just on top of the world. He’s always blushing, smiling, or staring at you with adoration in his eyes. It’s really just too cute. He also is not one to hide his feelings away from you, and will mean whatever he says. (He likes to compliment you a lot of tell you he loves you).
His good mood and easygoing aura are pretty contagious. Bokuto is the kind of person that radiates life and energy. You’ll most likely start to adopt a few of his personality traits (confidence, speaking up for yourself, becoming more expressive or empathetic, etc.)
He’s so keen on affection it’s crazy. He doesn’t mind keeping it low on the PDA (though he can’t resist throwing an arm around you or holding your hand in public), but in private, expect cuddling and touchiness. Whenever you two sleep together, he wraps an arm around your waist and snuggles against your back. He’ll press a few soft kisses on the back of your neck and murmur an “I love you” before he falls asleep. Then you’ll be lulled to sleep by his heartbeat and the soft, warm breaths he makes against the back of your neck.!You’ll likely be woken up by a flurry of kisses on your face more than once. He’s mature enough to leave you alone when you want, but he needs at least a little love daily.
Usually date nights will be spent at either of you two’s houses playing video games or watching dumb movies/YouTube videos while eating take out. He’s very adventurous and would like to go out at least every week to do something cool locally (like attending a festival, going to local restaurants/cafes, landmarks or historical sites near you, and even volunteer work at animal shelters).
He will come to you first as soon as he’s faced with any huge issue or decision. You are the number one person he trusts the most and your opinion really matters to him. He intently listens to your advice and takes it to heart. He will also do his best to give you advice when you need it as well. However, most of his advice is very idealistic and revolves around “following your heart”.
Something you’ll have to be good at is comfort. Bokuto’s bad moods are like an avalanche. One small thing can set him off, issuing a wave of depression on him. However, he’s very resilient and can bounce back after a little rant and some encouragement from you. To be honest, you don’t really have to be good at comfort (but it’s easier if you are), you can just stroke his ego a bit and he’ll get better. When the problem is something serious and not just a blocked ball or a bad grade, Bokuto gets very unnaturally silent and upset. In these moments, it’s just better to let him lay his head on your stomach and pet his hair until he’s ready to talk about it.
It takes a lot to get him legitimately angry over something. Although he may get annoyed at some things, he has a really long fuse when it comes to legitimate anger. Though, He would not, under any circumstances, hurt you.
Dating him comes with many perks, despite the few challenges you may face with his boisterous and unpredictable personality. He remembers most important dates (some may slip his mind though but he never forgets your birthday or anniversary), he’s a good listener, he’s not afraid to show or tell you how he’s feeling, he indulges in your interests and doesn’t judge you for them, he genuinely cares about you and your family and friends absolutely adore him. He’s always willing to lend them a hand or crack a few jokes with them.
Humor is a major aspect of your relationship. If you want to date him, you have to know how to take a joke. He teases you a little bit, but becomes frozen once you start teasing him (especially if it’s really witty, he’s at loss for comebacks). Also you have to be versed on pop culture and recent memes, because he makes references a few times a day to get a cheap laugh from you. He WILL text you pictures of ugly animals and say “look it’s u”. To get back at him just spam his phone with the laughing emoji until it crashes.
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